Well, I decided to number the parties I have at home so I can group them all together. There is sort of a continuing cast of friends who have attended the past four (which I didn’t have time to blog about or get any photos), but this time we were happy to welcome two of my international model friends Isabella Dollish and Ana-L (aka ragbambi). I have known Ana for a few years, either from parties in the US, or when we worked together in late 2019 for Red Moon Rising Media, which was a project I was involved with helping to create and shape via a boyfriend investor and his sidekick, until we had artistic direction differences (i.e. me a spanking purist working with a BDSM leaning owner who liked dungeons and stuff). I met Isabella at the Oasis Spanking Party in Las Vegas in February and we immediately hit it off (excuse pun!) and I asked her to be in my new ‘The Making of All-American Emma’ film series, which I will be continuing. She was wonderful as my American Aunt but something bigger than the moon and stars brought us together as friends that day. Isabella is still on her European tour as I write, but her and Ana stayed with me here at Bishy Towers and we all had such a brilliant fun time together I think. Anyway, back to the party last Saturday week…

Originally I had invited around 25 people but sadly a few couldn’t make it, including my parents and UK Aunt Miss Matthews which made me sad, so having Isabella and Ana to get to know for a few days here felt like I still had a family around to help me cope, including my amazing good friend, the talented and unique photographer John Watts, who doubles fabulously as a Driver, Chef, Spanker and shoulder to cry on. My scene bestie sister Lottie once again came and we could carry on our some of our girl chat WhatsApp gripes about ‘the scene’, and also catch up as friends. The very special and feisty Josie (Harrison Marks) who is now local too and a closer friend since she discovered me online on an unrelated social media app, arrived again with another spanking movie star guy I had seen in films a few years back but never met, and he looks exactly the same and was so much fun too! I’ve never believed family has to be blood based and mine is growing and I’m still making sense of the connections I make, but not overthinking anything, just having having fun and staying open to anything.

This time there was more spanking play, initiated by my house guests mainly after I had told them I needed help! My own spanking mojo has been low for months through illnesses, which dragged my energy and motivation to the basement so all I did was sleep a lot and have tests at the Doctors and hospital with no diagnosis. I had to cancel my gym membership too because I collapsed there with exhaustion. I had put on around a stone in weight and never felt as bad as I did, so much so that I had been relying on the funny entertaining tones of Miranda Hart in Audible to give me hope with her book ‘I Haven’t been entirely honest with you’ , which is about her similar illness struggles to mine, albeit hers were much worse.

I had 17 people here on the party day and soon the room (plus two bedrooms were made available) was filled with the sounds of lots of clapping (to vanillas) deadened a bit by the music, although having people outside drinking on my balcony and the outside traffic must have soundproofed the spanking…there I said the right word! Scenies, spankos, no vanillas, glorious food and pre selected wines and drinks soon had Bishy Towers feeling like something out of a bygone era but where corporal funishment was welcomed!

Because of my lack of having my bottom spanked through complete illness abstinence only, I had no intention to be spanked by anyone. After all, it had been a solid five months so my bottom was not only like a newbie with more puppy fat than I usually have, but a bouncier target (which apparently isn’t so bad from the ‘feedback’!). I was spanked by ‘Baker Dave‘ and this was filmed so I now had a video to edit, plus some photos to share. It kinda hurt, which I bratted about, but by the end there were big hugs and I was so grateful to be asked because it dragged me out of my spank slumber. This spanking precluded seeing my GP a few days afterwards and now that I’m having an inhaler to help clear my breathing issues and help me sleep more than three hours without waking up, I’m feeling stronger and wanting more of the thing I had been missing and having to deny myself all these months.

I was also spanked by Ana (who is generally a hardcore bottom like me) but is enjoying some switching now and again so practicing on me helped I hope!. She was brilliant with me and it worked, and complimented my evolving curiosity for needing and preferring a female disciplinarian/mentor, because it helps me aspire to be a better growing young lady and I am possibly treated harder (not necessarily physically) but it is far more emotional for me when I am not doing my best. However, of course this was just a party play fun thing with my friend and not a connection like that, but I did enjoy the style and giggles of it all and came way definitely glad I can now return my brand new bottom gradually to the scene. I was amazed though, particularly after my earlier spanking, that my spank memory kicked in and took over so I could get through a total of about 15 minutes hand spanking (some not exactly a warm up, tee hee!) like I’d never been away so long. Implements will slowly be reintroduced to me I guess so I will try and be a very good girl in case anyone already has a list of things they already want to see me about!. Oh and if anyone I “know” online including people I follow and “like” their work from affair would like to have a chat with me about this please don’t be shy! I will be having more private (invitation only) parties, plus I attend the US large organized ones (like Oasis, Las Vegas Labor Day) if you want to meet me there. I’m pretty shy about making any moves but you MAY know who you are and be braver and say the right words :). Here are some photos, and some movie clips may be posted elsewhere in our closed community soon 🙂 Now to get my bottom and body back to match fitness!