Rants

  • Love..i hate that word now

    Love..i hate that word now

    When i say “I love you” which i have done to lots of people i care about including chosen family and occasionally in spanko relationships, it doesn’t mean I’m IN love. I think Donkey even says he loves Shrek, or Eddie Murphy said it to Judge Reinhold in BHC? So when someone I had to

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  • The Rules of Engagement

    The Rules of Engagement

    I was going to put this in my last blog post but it would have been way too long, so I scheduled it and split it over two days. Someone asked me this week what kind of rules I had when I had Disciplinary and Mentoring relationships. I found them on a page I did

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  • I recently saw a very interesting thread in Fetlife about the quality of spanking videos (and ‘models) who appear in films but also in Spanking Tube, which has become a DIY haven for many aspiring ‘models’ in the scene. The writer (who I hope will not mind me recognising and agreeing with his opinion) wrote:

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