Thoughts and Musings
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I did that BDSM test the other day and it really surprised my ‘parents’ because I scored high as a brat. Father said… “It is perhaps a surprise though that the “brat” score is so high…. I was thinking that brats rather enjoy being naughty……is that right do you think? It seems to me that you
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I often have times when its all too much and I just wanna run away from trying to act grown up and right now I just want to get a plane somewhere hot and be totally on my own. I say I will sleep and get myself together but after a while I get bored
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I had a recent slightly drunken conversation with a vanilla man friend who I kinda really like but never said, and he’s left and moved away now. He knows everything about my kink but isn’t a spanko. He said he could never ‘hit’ a girl…while I’m sitting there running a monologue through my head thinking
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There is a big difference between being spanked for fun or discipline in my friendships and relationships and what I do as a model. It’s not about the actually limits, because on film I have been spanked just as hard and ‘for real’, but it’s about professional boundaries…. “Boundaries huh?, I say aloud to myself.
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Since I stopped working as a spanking model about a year ago, although I closed down my website and blogs around 2016, I’ve never stopped being involved in the scene. I’m much happier back here now and will say and write what the hell I want, outside of any personal rules I have again to
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So… due to many requests since I quit, comments and changes in circumstances, I decided to get back to doing a little of what I know. For anyone who has been friends with me or followers of this moi here crazy girl these past few years, you will already know I’m not a regular good
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I always saw role play as “a way in”. In my work as a model it meant I could set the boundaries and give people their scene, so it kept me safe and I never had to roam, experiment, or go outside of method acting if I needed to bring it in. I never had
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You know what, I had a break recently to get over an eye problem which is still not 100%, needed it anyway because being online is too much like hard work when you feel ill, and I have come back feeling completely different. I also finally today lost the 10lbs I had been carrying since
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..is that since I came back from Cancun in December I have not been well. I have managed to go to TASSP, seen something of Dallas and Nashville and the South of France (all of which I loved), but it has been tough, draining and tiring and has taken all of my ‘The Trouble with
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These past few months I’ve had a lot going on and a lot of changes, with illnesses and my new job, but somehow I see everything differently now and it’s not just because of the high dose Vitamin D!. Well not differently, but exactly the same as I did when I was out there a
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Yayyy! I can write again from a happy place looking back on how far I’ve come and how much stronger I am. I can just say “No” and mean it, but still have play fun without sharing my true submissiveness. I know the huge difference now – play is like a massage where I can
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Don’t put limits on meI have no limits on myselfThis is not a gameD/s is not playThis is why I never start anything that has an endingI would rather go without than be caged emotionallyNever ask me to share, sharing is for desperadosLeave me alone, go back to your wife, or girlfriend or “sub”Submission is
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Today I remembered how much I love being a spanking model and how much happier I am getting something out of it for myself too. I had so much fun again today in London with a new friend, and maybe that type of pro spanking session was always safest and perfect for me. I have
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ok I’m gonna say this at last. I am not used to playing with Tops at parties or ever, I am just used to Dominance. Last night when I was over someone’s knee he quizzed me on what I wanted and I got confused by it. I have never negotiated a scene and don’t know
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I need youYou make me come alive and I’m reinventedI want to bottle you up and open you on my darkest daysAnd pour you into my skin like the sweetest lotion I wish I could close my eyes, and today will always feel like the first day of my lifeAnd I will remember to live
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So my profile has always been too long, and it was recommended to me to do some writings and link to them if anyone wants to know more about me. Here goes…. I’m 5ft 7, size 12-14 (UK)/ 8-10 (US) and my BMI is normal in the average/middle of the range I have 2 Professional
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I’ve been asked recently what my needs are and I am pretty rubbish at saying. It’s easy to list the fetish ones, they are on my fetish list, but I was being pretty brave and silly and adventurous in there without risking too much! I just saw these rather cool online tests in Fetlife and
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== Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Brat100% Boy/Girl96% Slave91% Submissive58% Experimentalist52% Masochist47% Ageplayer44% Pet39% Rope bunny33% Primal (Prey)20% Non-monogamist15% Degradee7% Vanilla1% Exhibitionist1% Voyeur0% Primal (Hunter)0% Rigger0% Daddy/Mommy0% Dominant0% Degrader0% Owner0% Master/Mistress0% Sadist0% Switch See my results in detail: http://bdsmtest.org/r/6473944
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I did something pretty huge for me this weekend. I wrote a long post in Fetlife asking for ideas from other people in the scene. Well..hmmm..it was actually an accident, but now i’m kinda glad it was! https://fetlife.com/groups/600/group_posts/11529118 I started writing it as a post in my favourite group for Middles, but then I changed
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Yayyyy yes I did it!I told my parents I missed them last night…and my small plate of beans on toast and glass of soya milk for supper before bedtime, my French lessons when I’m in my school uniform sitting at a desk with a PC audio tape on (I’m learning intermediate French), having a wonderful
